Think you have a cheating wife? Has there been a few changes in your marriage? Perhaps the way your wife’s behaviour has changed, which is out of character? Below we have compiled a list of the top signs of a potential cheater;
Behaviour – Often the daily routine of a cheater changes around the time that an affair is taking place. This can be a way to confirm an affair, although there are numerous signs which will often occur simultaneously, to remove the areas of doubt. Behavioural changes such as leaving for work earlier, wanting to spend more time with ‘the girls’ and generally just trying to minimise the time spent with you, can be a good indication something is not right.
Personal Appearance – Often, a cheating wife will want to get into shape and lose weight, thus making her more appealing to men. Therefore, if you notice she is seriously dieting or spending significant time in the gym, specifically if this were something she normally did not do, you could be suspicious.
Finances – If you notice your wife spending money on frivolous things, dining out more, or making credit card purchases for small gift items, you might ask why. You may also become concerned if receipts are found that are out of character for her.
Mobile Phone Clues – Often a cheating wife may spend more time on the phone and want more privacy whilst doing so. An increase in wrong numbers or peculiar behaviour when taking a call, may also be a good indication of an affair. Also look to see if she guards her phone more carefully from the possibility of you seeing a text she’s received.
Sex – A common change with women who are cheating is that they are no longer interested in sex with the husband. When intimacy does occur, she may be more experimental or seem completely distracted.
Home/Car Clues – You may find that the wife is keeping the car/house cleaner than usual, removing infant seats or you may find things that you may not necessarily find such as clothing, cigarette butts, alcohol etc.
Why should you hire a professional private investigator?
Many people hesitate to hire a professional because they consider it a breach of trust. They question their own judgement and worry about being wrong in their suspicions. The only way to overcome this problem is to hire a private investigator to look into the matter. Here’s why you should consider it:
- Unbiased opinions – Most clients in these situations can’t be objective and often react impulsively. Private investigators will listen to what you have to say and take time to understand your suspicions before they offer their honest opinion on the matter. That’ll help you make the decision of whether you want to proceed with the investigation or not.
- Thorough investigation – Our private investigators for suspected cheating wives, or girlfriends will dig deep and explore every avenue to determine if your partner is cheating on you. They’ll track her movements, look into her social media interactions, speak with people she’s been in contact with, and take other such steps in order to get all the details they need. You can’t carry out such a thorough investigation yourself and your personal involvement with the situation might hamper your judgement so it’s best to let someone else handle it.
- Proof – If you intend to confront your partner over the infidelity, you need to make sure you have some evidence to back your claims. This allows you to focus on the facts during the discussion instead of focusing on accusations and speculation. Some couples recover from infidelity when they have an open discussion over it and decide what they need to do with their relationship together.
When you have access to all the information and evidence needed, you can take steps to protect your interests and decide whether the relationship is salvageable or whether you need to just let it go.